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What is Cyber Bullying? - Cyber Bullying Facts & Advice

Cyberbullying

Bullying of any kind is unpleasant, but cyberbullying , when someone uses technology, like the internet or a mobile phone, to deliberately hurt, humiliate, harass, intimidate or threaten someone else can be particularly distressing.

Cyberbullying can take many forms, such as: 

  • Sending nasty or threatening texts or emails
  • Using social networking sites, chatrooms or Instant Messenger to post abusive messages or taking on someone else’s identity online to upset them
  • Posting humiliating videos or pictures online, or sending them on to other people
  • Bad mouthing and spreading rumours
  • Setting up a hate site or a hate group on a Social Networking  site
  • Prank calling, prank texts and messages

In some ways cyberbullying can be worse than other forms of bullying, in that the bullying can be constant, and the target can be reached wherever they are.

For the cyberbully, there's the problem that once you send a bullying message or post something online, everyone can see it, and you can't take it back.  Many cyberbullies think that no one will be able to find out who they are, but that's not true.

Nasty messages and videos can spread very quickly and can cause widespread humiliation, and with the risk of the material resurfacing, getting over being bullied can be a hard and long process.

Dealing with cyberbullying

For tips on how to prevent or respond to cyberbullying, please read our guide on 'how to deal with cyberbullying' or visit the following sites for further information:

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How to deal with cyberbullying

If you are being affected by cyberbullying, here are some tips on how to deal with it.

  • You should report any form of cyberbullying. You can do this through CyberMentors or ChildLine.
  • Never reply or retaliate.
  • Block any users that send abusive messages, or adapt your social networking settings to prevent the bullies from being able to access your profile.
  • Keep a log of any bullying messages, posts, pictures or videos you receive or see.  Save or print them, making sure you  have a record of any details you have about the sender’s ID and the URL.
  • Don’t forward on cyberbullying videos or messages.
  • If you’re being bullied repeatedly, think about changing your user ID, nickname or profile.
  • Cyberbullying is NEVER acceptable. If you or someone you know is targeted by bullies online tell them
    • to report the bully to the website/service operator
    • keep evidence of the bullying behaviour
    • to resist the temptation to reply to nasty messages
    • to tell an adult.

Further information on how to address cyberbulling

Here are some really useful sites providing specialist advice on what to do if you are being bullied online. 

Social networking

Social networking is the grouping of individuals into specific groups, and although it is possible to do this in person at work, at university or in schools, it is now most popular to network online.

The internet is filled with millions of people looking to meet and share first-hand information and experiences about any number of topics, from hobbies and interests through to developing friendships and professional alliances.

Websites are commonly used for online social networking, and these are better known as social networking sites. They make it really easy to be creative online, to keep in touch with friends and colleagues, to share video, photos, music, and to chat all in the same place.

Depending on the website in question, many of these online community members share common interests in hobbies, religion, or politics. Once you are granted access to a social networking website you can then begin to socialise, including reading the profile pages of other members and contacting them.

It’s a way of accessing, and keeping in touch with a global community on your doorstep. Not only do you have the opportunity to make new friends, but you can learn new languages and new cultures along the way.

Two styles of Social Networking

There are thousands of social networking websites up and running. A significant number focus on specific interests groups, achieving a more defined audience. At the other end of the spectrum are the more traditional social networking websites which have open memberships. Anyone can become a member, irrespective of their hobbies, interests or background.

Once you are inside these online communities, you can begin to create your own network of friends and eliminate members that do not share common interests or goals.

New social networks are appearing all the time, but a recent article from TechRadar lists the UK's top ten social networks

 

Social networking safety tips

Social networks are now an everyday part of many of our lives, so when enjoying them do remember to stay safe. Read our tips for staying safe on social networks.

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Parental controls

Another way to help keep your children safe online is for you as a parent to be proactive and be prepared to monitor their use of the computer and their access to the internet.

Parental controls help you keep your family safe online and to ensure that your children only see the content that you want them to see. Bear in mind that the younger generation will probably wish to use SMS, instant messaging or chat rooms more than you do!

As your children grow up you can educate and empower them to make the right choices online: about what is appropriate content, how to use social networking sites safely, prevent cyberbullying and many other issues.

There is some useful information about helping keep children safe online while using social networking at:
http://www.onguardonline.gov/topics/social-networking-sites.aspx

Further information for parents on online safety

For advice on how to set some of the ground rules for your kids when using the Internet visit Get Safe Online

For further internet safety tips for parents visit BBC Webwise.

Google offers tips and safety tools for staying safe online: www.google.com/intl/en/landing/familysafety/

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Top ten tips for social networking safety

Social networks make it easy to stay in touch with friends or colleagues in an informal way, and to share music, photos or video, as well as to chat.

The very nature of these sites encourages people to share a lot of personal information, including photos, dates of birth, and even contact details. It’s very easy to post detailed personal information on a social networking site almost without thinking about it. Unfortunately, once you have published that kind of information online you can’t easily retract it, delete it or hide it. Your details are there for everyone to see.

It’s possible to use social networking sites effectively without putting yourself at risk by sharing too much personal information.

Staying safe on social networks

Follow our top ten tips below, and enjoy a safe social networking experience.

1. Before signing up to a website or a social network read their privacy policy and their terms and conditions so that you are comfortable with how that social network will deal with your information.  You should remember that social networks view their users as the product they are selling to their customers which are the advertising companies on that network.  The more personal information the social network has about you the more information it can sell to the advertising companies to target you with their products.

2. Review the privacy settings of the social network(s) that you are using and ensure they are set to the level most appropriate to protect your privacy. You should review those privacy settings on a regular basis to ensure that they still are at the required level - many social networks change their privacy settings without telling users, which can catch you out.

3. Be very careful about the information you post online as it can impact you in the real world. For example, tweeting that you are going on holidays for two weeks could alert criminals that your house will be empty.  Also location based services used in social networks can identify where you are to those with bad intentions.

4. Choose a strong password for your account to prevent someone else from accessing it. Do not share that password with anyone else and if you think someone else knows it change it immediately. 

5. Always log out of your account when you have finished using the site, especially if you are using a public computer or one you share with other people. There’s no point choosing a strong password if you stay logged in to your account – that makes it easy for people to access your personal information.

6. Don't post what you don't want others to know. The Internet never forgets and anything that you post online, whether you make it private or not, could become public at a later stage. 

7. Never click on links or install applications that are sent to you via messages that you are not expecting.  Criminals will use links or applications to install viruses on your computer and will often send them to you via messages.  They will even hack into accounts of people on the social network, including your friends, and use those accounts to send the links to you. These links often promise interesting videos relating to a current news item, celebrity or someone doing something really strange/funny.

8. Get your friends and family to have a look at your social networking sites to check that you aren’t giving out too much personal information or posting inappropriate photos/films because they might see something you’ve missed.

9. Respect yourself and others online.

10. If you are unlucky enough to have a bad experience online report it to the service provider and tell others about it. Cyberbullying is NEVER acceptable. If you or someone you know is targeted by bullies online, make sure that you tell someone about it.

Further advice on protecting your privacy on social networks

Read our tips for parents on how to protect your children on social networks.

Here are some useful sites to visit:

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